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This week my boyfriend moved into my apartment. I was nervous, but we both understood that it had to happen at some point. It has been more than one and a half years since we have been in a relationship, and living together was the logical next step. The first week so far has been […]

Last Monday on my flight to a client site, I was busy doing some work. A strange thought came in me. What if the pilot announces that due to an engine failure the airplane will crash in about 5 mins. What will I do? It was a strange thought, first I thought about who I […]

Its been about nine months since the last time I wrote a blog and lot of things have changed. I had a lot of fun in those nine months. I went out clubbing, dating and made several gay friends. I am now in a new relationship. He is 28 years old so around same age […]

This time last year I was in Puerto Rico with my boyfriend on a holiday and I felt like I had everything I wanted. One year later, he is my ex and I am in my bed in NYC writing this blog and two hour from now I will be on a date with another […]

I came out to my eldest brother back in the summer 2015, since then I have been trying to come out to my other brother. I tried few times and failed miserably mainly because I didn’t have the balls. So when I was visiting him back in June for five days (Wed-Sun), I was determined […]

My boyfriend and I moved into an apartment in NYC back in late May. Living with my boyfriend is very different from going out for dates or even traveling for weeks together. We have to give each other some space and adjust ourselves to the habits of the other. Since we both lived by ourselves […]

It’s winter break for me right now and I am with my family. I have been thinking of coming out to my brother but I am not sure whether I have the balls. I am 27 and I don’t want to turn 30 and still be closeted. I want to be out but I am […]

When faced with a complex issue, we tend to over simplify. For example, when we are faced with evaluating students, we tend to categorize them based on their grade (A, B, …, F) from an hour long exam. Before even getting to the effectiveness of exam, I want to talk about the over simplified grading […]

Life often seem like a book with a same page repeated multiple times. Most of us do the same thing again and again; it’s a constant repetition of same or similar things that form our lives. For me, I wake up at 7:30, shower, breakfast, drive to office, check emails, meetings, emails, drive back home, […]

Being a Tibetan is often be a lonely experience. We are often the minority our own town and usually surrounded by people of other ethnicities. Most Tibetans find themselves at home when they are around Tibetans in their close-knit Tibetan communities in different parts of the world. However, as a gay Tibetan I feel lonely even […]